As We Grow

You don't like growing up isn't it ? Haha

As we grow up, we tend to forgot whatever dreams that he had since childhood. The older we get, the more we actually come to realize that we have no more dream, those naïve but inspirational dreams….

As for me, I used to also have a lot of dreams, but time, No! Not time, but myself who has given up all those dreams. Undoubtedly, dreams does change or forgotten along the path of our life.

Childhood :

1) To be a GREAT GREAT DOCTOR- and I mean CURATIVE, COMPASSIONATE, INSPIRATIONAL DOCTOR.

2) To learn exclusive MARTIAL ART, including JUDO (my favourite-yellow belt<2^nd lowest rank>) and maybe KARATE (brown belt only).

I used to so-called fight/compete with my friends last time. Haha, so childish of me that I soon realized there are so much more for me to learn.

3) To own a house with a HUGE GARDEN and a MODERATE POND with a lot of fish. Not to forget, I wanted to design a SPECIAL FISH AQUARIUM within the house where all the fish can swim throughout the house.

4) To learn all about TRADITIONAL CHINESE MEDICINE & HYPNOSIS.

I was so amazed by the way how those “singseh” managed to diagnose any disease just by feeling the pulse and how a person can be hypnotized without even letting a person knowing it.

Singseh- Chinese doctor in olden day

THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two
小心讀每一個，再用一兩秒想一想 (*chinese translation)

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。

8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。

12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。

REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
緊記: 所有事也是因果循環的。

True friends: How many people actually have 8 true friends?
真正朋友: 有幾多人有八位真正的朋友?

Hardly anyone I know ! But some of us have all right friends and good friends!!!
我幾乎不認識這些人! 但在我們當中有些人全有對和好的朋友!!!


THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Another Grey Day of My Life…

A TRUTH it is....

Looking and seeing the pain & suffering that my grandma (pancreatic Cancer since 2 months ago) got to go through, I am wondering is there anything that I can do?

Or, maybe there is something , just something to relief her pain?

All my aunt , mum and uncle are trying all sorts of so-called “complementary medicine ” ranging from some direct sales(water filter & nutritional products), complex Chinese complementary herbal medicine and oilments which claim might be a cure for cancer. Hmm, I really doubt if those really work? And, I am also wondering ; is that what she wanted?

It’s not going to be something nice nor tolerable to actually eat dozen of medicine every single day for a long period of time, as if the rice we are eating each day. Actually, the doctors have been prescribing morphine to my grandma, since she really couldn’t tolerate the pain and was keep on demanding for panadol(paracetamol) each alternate hour even at night. However, it’s seems that it doesn’t works on her and she claim that paracetamol helps her more.. Hmm, I still need to find out the answer for this. Therefore, my relatives are all searching for something to relieve the pain and probably “curing” the disease. But, how much is the efficacy and truth? I really want to know!!!!!!!

On the other hand, It Is The Hope That Keep Human On-Going, Isn’t It? I just cant tell them it’s not going to work as a medical student, that my grandma wouldn’t has the chance to live on. And, it’s also at that moment I found myself trapped, trapped in the realism of this world. I know there is no way that me or any other people to run away from it, but I just hope 1 day I will be able to understand it.

To Realize

To realize
The value of a sister
Ask someone
Who doesn't have

one.

To realize
The value of ten years:
Ask a newly
Divorced couple.

To realize
The value of four years:
Ask a graduate.

To realize
The value of one year:
Ask a student who
Has failed a final exam.

To realize
The value of nine months:
Ask a mother who gave birth to a still born.

To realize
The value of one month:
Ask a mother
who has given birth to
A premature baby.

To realize
The value of one week:
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize
The value of one hour:
Ask the lovers who are waiting to Meet.

To realize
The value of one minute:
Ask a person
Who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize
The value of one-second:
Ask a person
Who has survived an accident...

To realize
The value of one millisecond:
Ask the person who has won a silver

medal in the Olympics

Time waits for no one.

Treasure every moment you have.
You will treasure it even more when
you can share it with someone special.

To realize the value of a friend:
Lose one.

Read Carefully and Understand the Meanings:

Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
You can only go as far as you push!
Actions speak louder than words.
The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.
Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it.
A best friend is like a four leaf clover, hard to find and lucky to have.
Some people make the world special by just being in it.
Best friends are the siblings God forgot to give us.

When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.

True friendship never ends.

Friends are forever.

Good friends are like stars....you don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
Don't frown, you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.

Most people walk in and out of your life, but only friends leave footprints in your heart.

If u love something...let it go.
If it comes back to you its
yours....
If it doesn't then it never was.

A kiss is just a kiss until u find the one you love. A hug is just a hug>until its from the one ur thinking of. A dream is just a dream until u make it come true. LOVE is just a word until its proven 2 u.

Nice Chinese movie series : )

Below are few youtube with some interesting chinese movies...Just check it out!!!

Chinese Paladin :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2RIeEzD5NU&feature=related

Love in architecture
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=am_hfTZVtfg&feature=related